Dear all my friends on Community Gala,
The doctor has said my beloved will have about 6 months to live. The cancer has moved to outside the intestinal wall and is inoperable. He will be going to the cancer center often for mild doses of chemo to help retard the growth of it. I'm literally sick and both of us are in shock. I told the doctor, "I don't even know how to get the 'ducks in order or what to do'." He told me I didn't have to do it right now. The doctor was upset he had to give us the information because he had watched how diligent we were about the treatment and what we've been through. Our hearts are broken.j
Trudy
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09/30/2011, 05:57 PM #1
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My beloved
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09/30/2011, 07:02 PM #2
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Oh, Trudy, my heart is broken for you and Guy. I can't imagine life without DH. I hope you will get a good hospice program to help you during this time. I have heard many positive stories of how helpful and supportive hospice programs are. My thoughts and prayers will continue to be with you both. God bless.
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10/01/2011, 07:44 AM #3
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Trudy, I wish I had words to express the heartbreak I feel for you. My heart, thoughts, and prayers go out to the both of you and your family. God bless you all.
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10/01/2011, 09:42 AM #4
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Oh, no! Many prayers seem to have been in vain....it is not for us to understand God's will. Experience has taught me that a situation like this is one of the hardest to endure. Be brave and try to make every moment count. Don't give up. There is always hope! I will continue to keep you and your family in my prayers....Love to all of you!
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10/01/2011, 06:10 PM #5
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There are no words to express the sadness I am feeling for you and Guy, and family. I believe in miracles, and continue to pray. Feel my arms wrapped around you, but most of all, feel God's arms about you. He's the one that matters the most, and will give you strength. ♥
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10/15/2011, 09:45 AM #6
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Dear All,
Please, would say another prayer for my beloved? I took him to the hospital yesterday morning with internal bleeding. His blood was like water with a clotting time of 8 seconds----it should be 2 seconds!
TrudyWhether you think you can or think you can't.....you're right.
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10/15/2011, 07:38 PM #7
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Dear Trudy, my thoughts and prayers are with you and Guy. God bless.
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10/15/2011, 08:35 PM #8
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Trudy, I said a prayer for you both, and will with the pastor tomorrow. God bless.
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10/15/2011, 09:55 PM #9
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Thank you so much. He's a bit better today. His blood is getting more acceptable. He had an endoscopy with cauterization of the bleeders in his esophagus and stomach. The doctor doesn't know if it's the tumor or radiation irritation. Keep praying, please.
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10/15/2011, 10:07 PM #10
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Many prayers continue to be said for both of you, and your family. God bless all of you!
Your attitude towards life defines not only who you are, but the quality of life you are after.
Conservation is a big long word for maintaining what you've worked so hard to achieve.
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